PARENTS AND CHILDREN / MAYBE A RELATIONSHIP REVIEW BY
Freud said that the job of parents, in their relationship with their children, is to be gradually, over time, completely unnecessary. And accept that children, once achieved the fullness of development and maturity, can make itself, in complete autonomy and without interference, their choice. Despite the fame and authority of the undisputed founder of psychoanalysis, it must be supposed, however, that except for very rare and unlikely exceptions, no parent in the world has ever made and put this into practice his teachings, as it has been established and acceptable and may appear his eyes from a cultural standpoint.
Since the world began, in fact, very rarely do parents have rinunciato a plasmare e controllare pervicacemente i propri figli, che per essi, a dispetto non di rado dell’età adulta e di una evidente e palese maturità intellettuale, rimangono in genere sempre tali da abbisognare, comunque, della loro guida e dei loro consigli vita natural durante.
Un atteggiamento questo duro a morire, in specie nel nostro Paese, alla base del quale c’è quasi sempre la discutibile ed erronea convinzione, ricorrente in ogni generazione di genitori, della presunta assolutezza dei valori in cui sono cresciuti. E fintantoché essi rimarranno in tale loro convinzione, continuando a comportarsi di conseguenza, senza mai venire benché minimamente sfiorati dal dubbio che, non if only for the huge difference in sensitivity, taste and ideas that invariably determines between old and new generations, children may also be of the opinion - beyond the due filial love for their parents - do not know what to do in any how their values \u200b\u200band prefer other quite different, it goes without saying that the relationship between parents and children - and whatever he thought it would Freud think of today - will continue to unfold as conflictual and unsatisfactory by both sides that has so far done.
ENZO PEDROCCHI
Freud said that the job of parents, in their relationship with their children, is to be gradually, over time, completely unnecessary. And accept that children, once achieved the fullness of development and maturity, can make itself, in complete autonomy and without interference, their choice. Despite the fame and authority of the undisputed founder of psychoanalysis, it must be supposed, however, that except for very rare and unlikely exceptions, no parent in the world has ever made and put this into practice his teachings, as it has been established and acceptable and may appear his eyes from a cultural standpoint.
Since the world began, in fact, very rarely do parents have rinunciato a plasmare e controllare pervicacemente i propri figli, che per essi, a dispetto non di rado dell’età adulta e di una evidente e palese maturità intellettuale, rimangono in genere sempre tali da abbisognare, comunque, della loro guida e dei loro consigli vita natural durante.
Un atteggiamento questo duro a morire, in specie nel nostro Paese, alla base del quale c’è quasi sempre la discutibile ed erronea convinzione, ricorrente in ogni generazione di genitori, della presunta assolutezza dei valori in cui sono cresciuti. E fintantoché essi rimarranno in tale loro convinzione, continuando a comportarsi di conseguenza, senza mai venire benché minimamente sfiorati dal dubbio che, non if only for the huge difference in sensitivity, taste and ideas that invariably determines between old and new generations, children may also be of the opinion - beyond the due filial love for their parents - do not know what to do in any how their values \u200b\u200band prefer other quite different, it goes without saying that the relationship between parents and children - and whatever he thought it would Freud think of today - will continue to unfold as conflictual and unsatisfactory by both sides that has so far done.
ENZO PEDROCCHI
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